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Honestly, people carry around virtual dump-trucks full of baggage out there. Secondly, yes, women desire and love sex, but they will only sleep with a guy who is very attractive to them, and this includes feeling comfortable. It's those kind of interactions that let you know something is beginning to form.

That means you are dedicating your full attention to this one person, with no interest to interrupt or take away from your time together. How can you tell if a guy just wants to sleep with you or if he actually wants to date you? He is most likely not testing you either and just wants you in bed so if thats what you want stay with him, if not then move on, men don't really test women its usually the other way around.

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So I've been on 2 dates with this guy. The first time I suggested something casual like coffee or pastries and he took me to this very nice restaurant for a 3-course afternoon tea. On the second date, he took me to a nice restaurant. At the end he asked if I wanted to come over to his place for a movie. I called my friend to make sure that she knew where I was and then agreed. So once we got to his place and put the movie on, he kissed me pretty soon into it. We actually made out and cuddled for most of the movie and it was completely initiated by him because I am pretty shy and conservative. I was having a good time though so I didn't stop him but told him to slow down a couple of times. After the movie was over, he put on some romantic music and wanted me to stay and dance with him. I told him that he'd better take me home because it was getting late. It was very clear to me that he would have wanted me to stay over and sleep with him if I had been willing. He drove me home and said he had a very nice time and we kissed good night. He is usually a gentleman with me and seems like a good person although he is a little bit arrogant about his accomplishments in life. Also, to put it in perspective, I am a 23- yo grad student and he is a 34-yo business man. I don't know whether I should be insulted and take that night as a sign that he doesn't take me seriously and just wants to get laid? Or is he testing me? Or did I give him the wrong signal by agreeing to come over to his place so soon? He emailed me two days later to share a little about his day. I'm not sure whether I should give him one more chance and keep the relationship going for one more date or just tell him that we're looking for different things over email and break this thing off? I did enjoy kissing him but even that was a bit to heavy for me on a 2nd date. He seems like an interesting person though, and I wouldn't mind getting to know him better. This is about respect and about boundaries. It is perfect for you to have principles. It is possible he wishes to create a serious relationship. I think you are within your rights definitley to tell him where you stand. If he goes quiet and stops contacting you so frequently, then obviously he doesn't want the challenge of the effort..... Trust your gut instinct. A 34 years old man won't waste his time with a girl that wants to hold hands. As a 36 years old woman I wouldn't waste my time with a 23 years old boy that only wants to hold hands. I kind of agree with this on some levels... He just wants some poontang. He just wants to get all naked a sloppy. Your probably a just a piece of meat to him. My honest opinion based on information provided. Three course meal on first date? For a 23 year old...... Don't mind bored hes just well bored and frustrated its making him bitter lately lol.. I think you gave him the wrong signals. If you don't want to get physical this early, you really shouldn't accept invitations to his house. Go on a few dates first before making out on his couch. Yea this I agree with 100% if your sending the signals then don't be shocked when he responds no one likes a cock tease wither you mean to or not live and learn... I don't see anything wrong with dating someone and making out with them. And it took time and intimacy and space to get from first to second to third base not to mention a homer. I don't think every guy expects a home run on the second date. And I don't see anything wrong with escalating intimacy over time. It would be a sad dating world if you have to hold off on kissing or touching until you are ready to jump into bed with someone. I don't see anything wrong with dating someone and making out with them. And it took time and intimacy and space to get from first to second to third base not to mention a homer. I don't think every guy expects a home run on the second date. And I don't see anything wrong with escalating intimacy over time. It would be a sad dating world if you have to hold off on kissing or touching until you are ready to jump into bed with someone. LoL Hey now common be fair its 5. I agree you shouldn't be afraid of kissing. But theres a time and place no? I do get what you mean but I think sadly times have changed do you wanna come up to my place doesn't mean what it use to maybe... Ummm am I missing something here? He didn't actually push you to have sex did he? From my understanding, things just got a little hot and heavy during the makeout session, as they usually do. You cut him off at the point in which was comfortable for you and it sounds like he respected that. So again, whats the big deal? The plain and simple truth is that he was testing your boundaries and enjoying the makeout session while he was at it. YOU didn't give in to sex but some other girls may have and you can't blame a guy for trying can you? Most importantly, if you wanted to avoid the pressure altogether you could have just gone home after the date. Lovely, I am not really agreeing with most people's comments in this thread. My take is that if you like him and want to get to know him better, be honest with him. Tell him you enjoy the time you spend together but you want to take things slow. You are younger, and at his age, it makes you a little easier to manipulate. Just don't let that happen. It's hard to say at this point if he only wants to sleep with you or is interested in more. But if you hold out on sex, his intentions will shortly become obvious. Just another note, no man has the right to expect sex. And no woman has the right to feel like she has to give it before she is ready. If a man expects sex, something is wrong with him. Sure, he might want sex. And not getting it might make some men frustrated or whiney but too bad. His horniness is not your issue. You don't have to provide sex just because he took you out or made out with you. There are no promises either way and you are not entitled to give him anything. Just as he is not entitled to give you more of a committment just because you did something like making out. If you just stay in the mind frame that you don't owe him anything, even if he takes you out, because that was his choice anyway, you will be in good shape. Be honest to him about what you want and be strong in that. I think you need to be honest, just tell him that you need to slow things down -nothing wrong with that might even make his heart grow fonder If he went out with you just for physical intimacy you'll find out soon after I reckon he'll respect you more after you explain yourself and make it clear that you are interested in him but would rather wait although nothing wrong with giving in earlier on if thats how you fell like all the best! It won't increase or decrease the chance of getting to exclusive relationship. If he didn't plan on anything serious i. If during the course of dating he discovered you two are not compatible, sex or no sex it's going to end. If he plans on getting serious with you, then sex or no sex he's going to try. So with that in mind, it's up to you and what YOU want. You know he wants sex. If you're cool with it, why not. If you're not cool with it, then don't give in. I wouldn't consider that an insult. The flip side is he NEVER wants sex. If you look on LS, threads like that where the women want sex more than the man happens occasionally too. It's a matter of sexual timing compatibility, i. If he disrespects your wishes not to have sex, then that would be an insult. So I've been on 2 dates with this guy. The first time I suggested something casual like coffee or pastries and he took me to this very nice restaurant for a 3-course afternoon tea. On the second date, he took me to a nice restaurant. At the end he asked if I wanted to come over to his place for a movie. I called my friend to make sure that she knew where I was and then agreed. So once we got to his place and put the movie on, he kissed me pretty soon into it. We actually made out and cuddled for most of the movie and it was completely initiated by him because I am pretty shy and conservative. I was having a good time though so I didn't stop him but told him to slow down a couple of times. After the movie was over, he put on some romantic music and wanted me to stay and dance with him. I told him that he'd better take me home because it was getting late. It was very clear to me that he would have wanted me to stay over and sleep with him if I had been willing. He drove me home and said he had a very nice time and we kissed good night. He is usually a gentleman with me and seems like a good person although he is a little bit arrogant about his accomplishments in life. Also, to put it in perspective, I am a 23- yo grad student and he is a 34-yo business man. I don't know whether I should be insulted and take that night as a sign that he doesn't take me seriously and just wants to get laid? Or is he testing me? Or did I give him the wrong signal by agreeing to come over to his place so soon? He emailed me two days later to share a little about his day. I'm not sure whether I should give him one more chance and keep the relationship going for one more date or just tell him that we're looking for different things over email and break this thing off? I did enjoy kissing him but even that was a bit to heavy for me on a 2nd date. He seems like an interesting person though, and I wouldn't mind getting to know him better. Break it off, the one thing I took from this is letting your friend know where you were so right there you weren't too sure of him. If you were more comfortable with him it wouldn't have mattered. He is a 34 year old business man also a little too old for you, try dating someone around your age and let the fossil date women his age. He is most likely not testing you either and just wants you in bed so if thats what you want stay with him, if not then move on, men don't really test women its usually the other way around. Shy women are hard to read, often throw off guys. Guys tend to be klutzes, too. I used to dance and do other graceful stuff, and I'm still a klutz. But the shy ones. Hard to tell if they're uncomfortable, or like submission, or what. One reason to go slow with everyone and just issue invitations. And remain alert to them. So if you're the shy one, have to make some effort to lead. On the bare facts above, looks like you did. I don't see anything wrong. He's just a guy hoping you like him, and like for guys usually shows up as kissing and screwing. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.

On the other prime, most of the foreign students you see or encounter with, probably come from a rich family affording their expenses and college tuition that is 3 times as expensive as local students public universities. If all goes well through the first three dates, he's courting you and making plans, following up, sin questions about wants sex on second date, and says he wants the same things in life as you, then it's time to move on to the next phase of dating. If he ends things abruptly right after the movie or right after dinner or whatever, that means he's not interested in doing anything else. And if he orders another drink, you might as well start picking out your china patterns. If that's not a sign he's into you, I don't know what it is. Even when I haven't received a notification in hours, I still find it necessary to repeatedly check every app possible in el something new will pop out of thin air. Whether you consider that palatable or not is irrelevant as we cannot control anther's expectations. He Never Makes A Point Of Saying He's Having A Good TimeWhen a guy is having a good time, he'll tell you. Do you realise that you are solo admitting that you are an animal after sex, persevering and persuading women to give in. He maintains eye contact. Also, this is not wants sex on second date tricking a woman into bed on the second date and then leaving them. So it was already up before I got out of bed.